Book Details:
Book Title: Dying Made Easy(er): Creating Your Happy Ending by Myra Bennett
Category: Adult non-fiction (18 +), 270 pages
Genre: Self help
Publisher: Balboa Press
Release date: June 2019
Format available for review: print, ebook (mobi file for Kindle), epub, pdf
Will send print books out: USA
Tour dates: Sept 16 to Sept 27, 2019
Content Rating: PG-13 + M (My book discusses death and dying)
Book Description:
Stories of American prowess in technology and medicine abound. And while these achievements have extended the lives of patients, they have not always extended the quality of those lives. As the older population in America skyrockets, more and more people who have received a terminal diagnosis, as well as those who love them, must grapple with the devastating decision of how they will forestall–or face–death. In Dying Made Easy(er) by Myra Bennett, we are guided through the diverse phases and considerations of the end of life by an experienced traveler who’s spent many hours “as a guest in the sacred place of the dying.” Bennett, a hospice nurse and certified end of life doula, who has also grappled with death in her personal life, invites us to contemplate dying from many different angles: legal, social, physical, psychological, and spiritual. Her Dying Made Easy(er) is both a handbook of pertinent information and a medley of informed suggestions for us to consider when experiencing or sharing the phenomenon that is the end of life. Bennett believes it is imperative that we–as a community–are aware of how to find help when faced with death and dying. In Dying Made Easy(er), she provides the resources to address this pressing need. Bennett, who is the co-founder of Compassionate Crossings in Sacramento, has seen it all. She’s witnessed the dying process unfold in beautiful ways, with gifts for all involved, and she’s seen it devolve into a series of anguished mishaps that leave the family praying for an early transition. As there are no opportunities for rehearsals or do-overs, Bennett is committed to helping us better understand dying as the last–but not the least–chapter of life, and to helping us dream what this chapter might look like. In her warm and wise book, we learn how to turn this dream into a personal reality that will meet not only our deep-felt needs and desires but also those of our family and loved ones.
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Meet the author: Myra has been a student of death and dying since she experienced the loss of her husband in 2001. The years that would follow saw the loss of many friends and family as well, which gave her life experiences she would later use to care for patients as a hospice nurse at a large national hospice agency.Today Myra is a certified end of life doula at Compassionate Crossings in Sacramento where she not only guides and supports terminally ill persons and their families, she also speaks and educates on all subjects related to death and dying. Connect with the author: Website ~ YouTube ~ Facebook ~ Instagram A BIRD IN THE HAND By Myra Bennett Everyone knows the old English proverb, “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”. The lesson it offers is that we are wise to carefully consider the risk involved when attempting to get more of something, and sometimes it is best to be satisfied with what we already have. This proverb can be helpful when we are considering treatment options for a terminal health condition. A good example are the treatment choices for many cancers. Chemotherapy, radiation and surgery can all have unwanted side effects, and certainly have the potential to affect the quality of life. In fact, these medical decisions can often come with dire consequences, and may even be the eventual cause of death. Here in the United States, medical care can sometimes be practiced with a “Cookie Cutter “ approach. A particular medical condition gets a treatment plan based on the defined standards of care for that diagnosis. While this is the best the medical field can offer, using the Western medical model, there is no ‘money back guarantee’ offered for the outcome. If the patient has a ninety percent chance of survival if they accept treatment, how are they to know if they are in the ninety percent, or ten percent of those who will be treated? There are also many other factors for consideration, such as the patient’s general health condition, age and lifestyle. We humans are not all the same! This is why–many times, when we look back on the circumstances of a person who was medically treated for a terminal illness, we are not sure that the treatment did indeed extend life. Sometimes we wonder if it only extended death, accompanied by pain and suffering. The truth is, that at any given moment, our life experience is based on what we choose to be aware of. If our awareness is on prolonging our life at any cost, under any circumstances, then what are we choosing not to be aware of? Are we giving up the bird in the hand? This is why–for some people–they choose to focus on love given and received. At their end of life, they will focus on enjoying the company of those they love, and take opportunities for joy, laughter, and conversations, with big helpings of hugs and kisses. A beautiful bird indeed! MYRA BENNETT DYING MADE EASY(ER) BOOK TOUR SCHEDULE:Sept 16 – Library of Clean Reads – book spotlight / author interview / giveaway
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